(a) This does not mean we become permissive or soft, that itself is a massive withdrawal.
(b) Their natural growth process is encouraged.
(c) In other words, when we truly love others without condition, without strings, we help them feel secure and safe and validated and affirmed in their essential worth, identity, and integrity.
(d) We make it easier for them to live the laws of life – cooperation, contribution, self-discipline, integrity – and to discover and live true to the highest and best within them.
(e) When we make deposits of unconditional love, when we live the primary laws of love, we encourage others to live the primary laws of life.
(f) We give them the freedom to act on their own inner imperatives rather than react to our conditions and limitations.