Heights of Frustration and Anger

unknowntotheworld · **Heights of Frustration and Anger -** 26-03-2005, 01:55 AM

Lets take this scenario...
U are in college and all of a sudden there is a this guy who comes into ur life. Teaches u. Makes u look at a life in a different way. Makes u help build ur career.
U too become good friends. Day and night u think only about him. Try to know more about him. It just so happens that u know all the things that he likes and most of the things that he hates. U feel like talking to him day and night, evening and afternoon, early morning and midnight. Every minute every second u feel like talkng to him.
To tell u the truth the reason y i joined the first compnay was only for him coz i wanted to work with him so that i can see him everyday and know more about him.
BUT... what happens.... i sign my appointment letter and the very next day he says he is joining another company. Point 1 of frustration.
He works for another company and is happy there and my life here is miserable. Never made him realise it or express it that i was in love with him. Mail him , talk to him without bothering about the telephone bill. Try ur level best to meet him as many times as possible in a month.
But ofcourse never used to work. Point 2 of frustration
Then u finally tell him that " hey I love U" and he says nothing about it. U get close to him. Finally one day he tells u " this is not going to work, end all this before we end up hurting eachother more" Point 3 of frustration.
U try to take things to ur stride and accept the fact. Change everything in ur life. Ur living , ur job, ur lifestyle, U have a complete makeover for what he did to u. and then go through ur life as if nothing happened at all.. Of course talking to him comes down drastically and mails too... and was missing him like a dosa for a small peice of butter on it. Point 4 of frustraion
Then he starts calling me u up and u get back to square one. Want to be with him, talk to him, speand every mintue with him. But No its not possible. Y give hopes to the damn person man when u know that he is going to say the same old crap. " dont get into things before it hurts u and me more" Point 5 of frustration
U realise that he trying to aviod u again. He is not well. U call up everyday twice. Once in the morning and once in the evening. And speak for how LONG.... 5 seconds....12 seconds...23 seconds....54 seconds.... this is what happened for the past 4 days. He is not well......
Y the hell do u call up man. U r calling up that person coz u care for him and want him to be fine. Is there any problem if u call up twice and ask " hey how u feelin today, what did the doctor say?" Is there anything wrong in it..... and one fine day he neither takes ur call and doesnt even bother to call u back. Point 6 of FRUSTRATION and ANGER

What the hell is life about guys. U care for some one so very much and this is what u get in return. How do u expect this person to feel when someone is not bothered about u at all. U r not getting to his nerves right. If that is the case then y doeant the other person SPEAK........
I hate this ................this person has now decided that she will not ever call him up till he shows any kinda interest that yes ..... this person out here is waiting for ur call...

Tell me guys what would u have done in case if u were in this situation... mY anger really has no limits for it..

jaymehta · 26-03-2005, 02:09 AM

hey,

such a person doent deserve the love n caring u show 4 him...!!

u have to realize.. he mite agin try to get in touch with u... which will again raise hopes only to be shattered... its better if u try to jus forget him... ignore him.. till u r ovr him!!

difficult but possible... coz i beleive in "time is da best healer" so go ahead live yr life.. sont spoil it bcoz of jerks like these!!

cheerS

Jay

DesiGuru · **Love -** 26-03-2005, 02:12 AM

Trust me if this is your height of frustration you are pretty lucky...
Just that you have been unlucky in love.

If you actually loved him and thats the only reason u joined the company then you should have atleast tried to start a relation before the company joining...
Ofcourse from my own personal experience i have lost some great possible loves simply because i couldnt break the ice...

I know someone who loved me... left the company a month after i left... ofcourse it was a complicated love affair that better not be discussed. So i am similar to this guy but we still talk sometimes and both regret it terribly that something long term is simply not possible...

i can start the typical cliche that will follow...
move on keep a non zero hope of things working out... but move on for sure try finding someone else.

K

The Mican · 26-03-2005, 02:18 AM

Hey !

At the risk of sounding frivolous, you have a nice plot for a bollywood pot-boiler. Climax is left to you .......if need be, I can help you out. Candidly writing, if I were in your shoes, I would have drawn on my experience and roped in some artists and made a movie out of this plot.

Chillax Gal........Love Sucks........and love ain't love if it ain't commercial. Think of all the big moolahs that you will be making from this movie. Sell your plot with some more masala to Bolly Moviemakers and make some dosh.

Godspeed.

tp · 26-03-2005, 02:19 AM

hi there i just read this post and yes it aroused almost the same emotions in me as wat ur goin thr probably i was goin thr some time back. well i gues dear there r many thgs to look for. its a human tendency to become gullible at times. we know wat we want but still we need others to ensure that wat we r doin is gud . wen he arrived at ur life, u had all ingredients to survive w/o him but gradually u allowed him to take control of ur life and how ? it was coz inside u were susceptible and gullible enuf to accomodate him. well readin ur post, i can very well understand that this guy was shady as he never told u anythg wat he had for u. now all this can b bcoz of 2 reasons, either he really cared for u and wanted to see u at the top, or he wanted to relly test that does he has it in him to make a gal mad after him but wat i guess frm ur post was that this was the later case. now dear u ve loved him, uve cared for him but he has never reciprocated as u wanted and this was done by him to just convey u one msg that this guy had no emotions for u. these can b for many reasons. now i know reading ur post that u were not totally at fault but at sometimes u did somethgs wrong, as u allowed him to take ctrl of u, ur emotions and then a time came wen u needed him the most. now dear strange it may seem but ive always admired one thg in gals that they can lov a guy very intensely and at the same time they can forget him 2 very quickly. now i know tat isnt easy but ill suggest u to carry on with ur own work, dun let him take ctrl of ur life again. it seems that he comes to u wen he perhaps start runnin short of people its like old school habits of guys that they ll never leave a gal for wich they have no emotions as they keep her just as an object which i dun wana u to b

although i know most people in ur shoes wouldve done samme thg but i guess now ul have to thk of him jst like any other guy dun keep any special emotions and hopefully this time ull get someone who cares for u more than anythg coz i believe ull get tat one someday and this guy is definitely not tat

hopin this post will soothe u a bit
take cara

THeIncredible · **Height Of Frustation -** 26-03-2005, 02:21 AM

is this really height of frustation let me tell u sumthin

left the job wasted 9 months for CAT 12 calls 6 iims n 6 various 2tier inst. instrd in iims but gave others just for the heck of it n didnt get thru FMS IIFT MDI made it thru NITIE n IITB where i m not interested n on top of that fu**** up all iims NOW ISNT DAT THE HEIGHT OF FRUSTATION!!!!!!

unknowntotheworld · 26-03-2005, 02:21 AM

jay its not that he is not worth it and stuff...... he actually is a ver very down to earth person and we can u know just make out from our voices over the phone how our mood is and what we have in our mind and stuff like that but this scenario where in i call him and ask him about his health is just going above my head....

unknowntotheworld · 26-03-2005, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by tp

now dear u ve loved him, uve cared for him but he has never reciprocated as u wanted and this was done by him to just convey u one msg that this guy had no emotions for u. these can b for many reasons. now i know reading ur post that u were not totally at fault but at sometimes u did somethgs wrong, as u allowed him to take ctrl of u, ur emotions and then a time came wen u needed him the most. now dear strange it may seem but ive always admired one thg in gals that they can lov a guy very intensely and at the same time they can forget him 2 very quickly. now i know tat isnt easy but ill suggest u to carry on with ur own work, dun let him take ctrl of ur life again. it seems that he comes to u wen he perhaps start runnin short of people its like old school habits of guys that they ll never leave a gal for wich they have no emotions as they keep her just as an object which i dun wana u to b

take cara

honey i know him for the past 3 yrs pal.... everyday every min.....

tp · 26-03-2005, 02:30 AM

i know that but was wondering as to how all these thgs can happen inspite of 2 people knowin each other well. perhaps as they say sometimes even time cant b a criteria for relationships

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Originally Posted by unknowntotheworld

honey i know him for the past 3 yrs pal.... everyday every min.....

unknowntotheworld · 26-03-2005, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by The Mican

Hey !

At the risk of sounding frivolous, you have a nice plot for a bollywood pot-boiler. Climax is left to you .......if need be, I can help you out. Candidly writing, if I were in your shoes, I would have drawn on my experience and roped in some artists and made a movie out of this plot.

Chillax Gal........Love Sucks........and love ain't love if it ain't commercial. Think of all the big moolahs that you will be making from this movie. Sell your plot with some more masala to Bolly Moviemakers and make some dosh.

Godspeed.

This is not a plot.......... u want to get my name his name numbers.......... and talk and find out about it u can................... ITS REAL LIFE THAT WE R TALKING about here