floyd,
hey.. to start with, i know exactly where you come from.. before i start rambling on lemme say one thing 'shit happens' n its ok..!! seriously..!!
life's not fair n will never be, you just gotta make things happen..
Disclaimer: the only reason i logged on to write this is in the hope that i could help some one.. i havent been around since ages, i hope someone around still knows me..
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Originally Posted by floyd_rose
I must say there are two reasons why i am writing this. First, because i too have failed in achieving what i had expected (let's be frank) and secondly, i have lost all the interest in getting myself an MBA degree.
floyd,
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ok just to get you to ground reality, the only reason you write this is the first one.. just the first one.. n its a very good thing to accept failures.. getting along from there, you know life's not about an mba, you know that.. all you think is that an mba is gonna give you something which makes you stand out and makes you stand above the rest, which is not so definitely..
so why?? why do we fall into this trap of getting an awesome PG degree?
well agree or not this is something which the world has let you to belive that an mba degree is going to be life changing, you are gonna start earning big moolah.. you gonna become the know all business guru..
you know thats not true, as navneet pointed out, sooner or later you learn whatever you need to learn on your own..
ok, i am not being hypocritical as i am pursuing a management degree myself, but i have my reasons as you might have your own..
is it a business?? of course it is and there is nothing wrong with it.. education is a business.. nobody's doing it for charity
coming to the point of it being an unfair process, of course it is.. as life can be too.. but you gotta accept n move on.. 10th / 12th definitely makes a difference and so do hundreds of other things..
do you know how easy is it for a girl to get into a b school is, compared to a guy of the same calibre..??
do you know how easy is it for non-engineers or people with off-beat careers to get in?
now to contradict what i said earlier, it's all fair.. if you look at it the right way.. an mba is just one of the probable 1000 ways of reaching where you wanna be life.. and if you are depending on an external source like that, you better accept the rules by which they play.. remember your goal is not an mba.. its something else.. the issues which you think are issues are actually not.. they are just some rules of the game.. this part is just a small portion of your journey.. a small small portion..
i'd like to share a small story with you..
i am pursuing a program where i have been taught by some really brilliant faculty from all across the world.. n i am very stingy with compliments but some of them have really been exceptional.. do you know one of the my favourites till now is from a bschool called I-I-P-M.. this guy graduated from there some 15 odd years back had a long stint in the industry and then joined a bschool as a full time faculty.. do you what was my first impression of him when i read his profile before attending the classes? i was like 'wtf a c*** from I-I-P-M is gonna teach me one of my most awaited subjects..' after 4 sessions i was shocked to see the kinda knowledge he had.. till the time the course got over i was in love with this guy..
there are quite a few lessons from this story to me, the one which i would like to point out to you is that it does not matter how you get there, as long as you get there.. in fact the the more the challenges, more the learning, more enjoyable your journey is.. you might get into an ivy league bschool tomorrow.. you might not get into a bschool at all.. but you will still be where you really want to be..
fair / unfair is just the way you look at it.. think about it..
cheers
(apologies for too much text

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