another love struck fool....

[Jackal]

hmm where xactly do i start... well...
there is this gal in my class who once had a crush on me used 2 give a lot of attention.. cards .. blank calls etc etc whatever i never gave her tht muc of attention.. and with time evrything faded... she remained a good friend.. shared lots of things with her (even crushes & stuff) now the problem is now with time i'v realized tht i love her and now tht i am givin her special attention she is kinda ignorin me.. so i finally decided to tell her abt it and c wtever b the outcome but another prob we r havin our final sem xams which will be over by 5th.. and i dont want her or 4 tht matter even myself to spoil our exams...
now i have no idea whether she still has special feelings 4 me or not..
and i have the least idea abt wht i shud do??
shud i tell her now or wait 4 xams 2 b over
i am gettin sick smokin 40 cigs a day due to all this tension...

[schild=16 fontcolor=8B0000 shadowcolor=0000FF shieldshadow=1]PLZ HELP ME OUT....[/schild]

[RahulSharma]

Do it now. Worse is that she will refuse, but she will hear this explicitily from you.
A woman's refusal means nothing, and take that in good spirit(easy said than done).
Try again, again till u succeed. All keep in mind, all along that figure of 4 should gradually come down to 4. Women like strong guys(mentally and emotionally).
Smile when she says no. She will always remember ur smile the next time u propose her. Best of luck!

[ramya_k]

hey,i think you should atleast wait till your exams get over....itz not really that long away so im sure you cud wait a while longer.if u tell her now itself,it mite affect ur perfromance as well as herz(whether her reply is positive or negative)
so for now,stop worrying about it and sit for ur exams with a cool head.but once ur exams are over,therz no getting away from it.....u hafta tell her,man.
there are 3 possible scenarios:
1.she cud say yes
2.she mite play a lil hard to get(think of it as sweet revenge..we girls are like that ) but she eventually will say yes..she jus needs you to persuade her and convince her about your love
3.she jus might say no...bcoz the past is past and she mite have completely gotten over you n now thinks of u as nothing more than a friend...
i hope scenario 3 dusnt happen but even if it does,dont lose hope...keep trying and she'll be yours!!
oh...and please do cut down on the cigs...itz not helping you n i dont think shed b too pleased if she knows about it.
all the best.do let us know wat happens after u tell her
C Ya

[MavericK]

Where Dr.Anuj Madan, (Ph.D - Love-ology )
For the uninitiated, this is the proof
http://www.pagalguy.com/cat/viewtopic.php?p=57106#57106

[anujmadan]

Hey Maverick

Me here

i m busy a bit will try to post the reply today itself.

Sorry but i have some engagements today.


Bye

Anuj

[anujmadan]

hi man

well shortly i wud say First of stopp smoking in huge nos. as even if u dont die of heart attack will die of Lung cancer.

Next:
if u r so close then just go tell her that i dont wanna spoil your or my exams and i wana say that i love u and our closeness has brought me to say these words.

take it easy and relax while saying all this . tell even if she says no u dont wanna losse her as ur friend so u dont wanna change in the present relationship u have . U only wanna take this relationship further to next stage .

And meanwhile concentrate on ur exams as since u r arnd 22 at a very young age, i think there will be many gals coming ur way during the course of life and with many we try to develop the similar kind of raltionship.so relax if no pooja then koi aur dooja.
Also if u dont tell her now and wait fr exams to over, u will losse. so better tell her as soon as u read this. u will also get time to convince her later if she says no in first time since u will be meeting after that till 5th

So go ahead withouit caring a damn abt the consequence and wish u gud luck.
Any prob send me a pm as that wud come on my mobile and can answer at the earliest.
dont worry MAIN HOON NA


Bye
Anuj

[The Last d'anconia]

ppl,

I generally keep away frm such threads....but I think I interfeer this time..

Love is an emotion which is very personla to neone.

How can someone else undestand what ur feelin???

and none here knows what u feel and nuthing abt the gal...how can u expect them to understad the situation and give suggestion..

and i warn u...when u look frm outside these things seem very silly..but only the guy who is in the situation knows what it is..

so, ppl better we dont give ne suggestions and ask him to make a choice because he is the one who knows what it is.

Hey, buddy, Jackal....do u think u need others to interfere into ur personal things...and make a choice for u..

and ppl no offense meant to neone...

plz dont try to be Shahrukhs in Main Hoo Na or some other melo drama...every one knows that itz just crap....
this is not a movie,....itz life..and two lives r connected with it...

and they r grown ups...let them take their own decisions....


cheers...

[anujmadan]

hey well Mr THE Last ......

i m not trying to be SRK in Main Hoon NA, neither do i intend to be one. I was just helping my frnd there well no intention of giving my unnecessary advice to anyone, i was called upon so i thought is hud contribute since i think i am experienced in this line.

if u dont like then i cant help.

ALSO ur saying that these r personal things , Well i think in such cases u need someone to help u , u might take wrong decisions at some stage.

Well i will not say anythimg else, those who want can ctch me anytime those who donot can mind their own busi.

Bye
Anuj

[sachkal]

BTW,,

I will appreciate the words Mr. Madan - WELL SAID - VERY WELL SAID,,

wish somebody like you were around when I had gals in my vicinity and I was young ), now it is lil late )

Carry on the good work...

cheers
SK

[THREADLOCKER]

i am gettin sick smokin 40 cigs a day due to all this tension...

Bhai yaar kyon bharee jawani mein sucide ki soch raha hai.
Exams ache se de de fir baad mein uske baarey mein sochna nahi to final year exams kharab ho gaye to bhi lifetime ka panga ho jayega yaar.
And all the best yaar.






Regards
Navin