Well.. Well.. A hotrod topic for sure..
Coming to the point, while a positive gender bias towards girls might/might not exist, we should understand its impact.
For ex, IF a girl and a boy with the same credentials are compared and the girl is given preference to improve batch diversity in a bschool, i would very gladly agree that this is the right move, PROVIDED, the girl really makes use of such a gesture..
But unfortunately, what my PERSONAL experience has taught me is that these very girls who do a top MBA or for that matter even an MBBS/MTECH from elite institutions tend to waste such an education by NOT working!!
I know quite a few girls who have unashamedly told me that the very reason they do this course is to improve their prospects for a NRI groom!!
Take for example what happened in a top bschool. (I know this source very well) 4 girls were offered a TOP post based in NY for a HUGE dollar pay.. And all the girls refused.. Reason?? Marriage!! And now the company has refused to come to the college..
This is OUTRAGEOUS!! There are ppl for whom every dollar more means less pain and more economic freedom.. And then there are girls who go to do their MBBS.. My neighbour did her MBBS and the nxt month after completion promptly left for the UK, happily married.. Shez now just a glorified housewife..
The question i ask is, are we doin the right thing now with this gender bias in favour of the girl, while the SOCIETY at large (and that includes these girls..) remain oblivious or indifferent to a good will gesture like this??
Agreed there are exceptions to this too, but still such exceptions are RARE and for a majority of the girls as far as i know, the said example seems to be the norm...
Just to make things clear, im no male chauvinist or something.. I have a great respect for women and im all for equality.. But not for such gross misuse of equality.
And IF the girls blame these things on society and family pressures, I have but only one thing to ask, "What about your guts??"..