[accenture07]

Originally Posted by aditi_s

Anyway that's all from me. Have fun with this discussion. I wish to see more positivity though

V day bring happiness for those (as u said) fallling in true love with each other.For them it can be a day that is more important than any other day in their life.
And for people with bitter experiences its the day of frustration and anger.We cant really tell them about the falsity of their experiences.They have seen worst times because of their experiences.So lets give them a chance to share their feelings here.

I know we both are trying to say the same thing.You are trying to light the bright side of true love and experience of a guy (the story you gave) and I (with other puys) is trying to express our past experiences and observations.

Nobody is wrong,Nobody is right here.

I truly respect your feelings and your post. :smile:

Originally Posted by aditi_s

Oh well, this was expected
Most of the time,things go wrong because people are running after the wrong person or have unrealistic expectations.Two people can be great individually but that doesn't necessarily mean they are meant for each other.

Well that happens because those are relationships of convenience, its not love.

Absolutely True ma friend :smile:

Originally Posted by aditi_s

P.S. @ accenture_07 : I am rather curious to know how you celebrate Teachers' Day

Great Idea,I never gave it a thought

PG's long tradition of helping memebers

[spirit11]

Originally Posted by aditi_s

Oh well, this was expected
But one thing I wrote in my post remains un-commented upon Expectations are all fine but What about yourself ? But like I said, I posted primarily to share those stories.I believe Mr.Sunny Pawar is doing what is right but many people find it praise worthy because they have forgotten to be self-less for those they love. Only one more person [and he isn't posting here] felt equally sad that this guy has given up his education and perhaps we could try and find some way to help him. [is that also one of the problems with India? ]

Wel i would say wats make this even worse is that most of the people who think that something should be done about this limit themselves only to that and thats thinking and showing empathy...and all this funda about being selfless well u will be able to find true love of your heart only if u yourselves have all the qualities that u r looking for in ur partner otherwise how will love come if there no like qualitites between the two people..so this selfless quality is taken care by itself....you dont have to show that you are selfless...as its is said actions speak louder than words...

P.S-Founding It Praise Worthy and feeling Sad are one and the same thing until some concrete steps are taken.
P.S 2- I am waiting to be proved wrong.

[Greenspan]

Originally Posted by aditi_s

But one thing I wrote in my post remains un-commented upon Expectations are all fine but What about yourself ?

Lets try to change that, shall we?

Why do you think "What about yourself?" is asked in MBA interviews. Coz it is indeed one of the toughest things to answer. And thank heavens for it being so, otherwise we would never have had dense subjects such as philosophy and the arts to admire.

My point of contention is that, just like most MBA aspirants do not know the answer to "Why MBA?" or more precisely 'Why you?", most wannabe lovers do not know the answer to the question "Why should the girl choose you?"

I have read the posts here in this thread which discussed "good gal+bad boy" and vice versa, and though I am guilty of such sweeping generalizations myself, I am atleast aware that I form such opinions only by outer appearances. Who knows if given some time, the guy who we think does not deserve such a great gal would decimate us in knowledge, cheerfulness, vitality, personality and maybe a lot more. And for the "sour grapes" kind, maybe if we get to know the girl from within, we would consider ourselves lucky for not being that guy beside her

But who can blame humans for aspiring the best? Gimme one instance of a person who writes XAT, FMS or SNAP only without giving CAT? So do aspire for the best, but be ready for the rejections.

And as far as the articles that were put up, they were "feel good" articles worth a read, but not worth emulating if ones priorities are different. I am more of the "300" kind, where he loves his wife, and the wife still allows him to go kill himself, coz thats his friggin' job!

Originally Posted by aditi_s

P.S. @ accenture_07 : I am rather curious to know how you celebrate Teachers' Day

That reminds me of one more reason to go for a teacher. After virtually anything, it is inevitable that she utters "Please do it hundred times!" God forbid, I hope its not because she thinks that it is a mistake!

[shrijalohade]

Originally Posted by Greenspan

Lets try to change that, shall we?

Why do you think "What about yourself?" is asked in MBA interviews. Coz it is indeed one of the toughest things to answer. And thank heavens for it being so, otherwise we would never have had dense subjects such as philosophy and the arts to admire.

My point of contention is that, just like most MBA aspirants do not know the answer to "Why MBA?" or more precisely 'Why you?", most wannabe lovers do not know the answer to the question "Why should the girl choose you?"

I have read the posts here in this thread which discussed "good gal+bad boy" and vice versa, and though I am guilty of such sweeping generalizations myself, I am atleast aware that I form such opinions only by outer appearances. Who knows if given some time, the guy who we think does not deserve such a great gal would decimate us in knowledge, cheerfulness, vitality, personality and maybe a lot more. And for the "sour grapes" kind, maybe if we get to know the girl from within, we would consider ourselves lucky for not being that guy beside her

But who can blame humans for aspiring the best? Gimme one instance of a person who writes XAT, FMS or SNAP only without giving CAT? So do aspire for the best, but be ready for the rejections.

And as far as the articles that were put up, they were "feel good" articles worth a read, but not worth emulating if ones priorities are different. I am more of the "300" kind, where he loves his wife, and the wife still allows him to go kill himself, coz thats his friggin' job!



That reminds me of one more reason to go for a teacher. After virtually anything, it is inevitable that she utters "Please do it hundred times!" God forbid, I hope its not because she thinks that it is a mistake!

he!he!he! love the joke, the one at the end !!! He! he!