[denim_me]

so u gave an exam and didnt get thru!!! so wht next? at times it helps if u shout,abuse the system,imagine the worlds all wrong.
this thread is just the place...tell everyone wht a mistake those institutes made by not selecting u ..find as many faults as u can and read others list..it might help..

ciao

[Apurv]

... smells of acute negativism..

[suchs]

er......sometimes negativism helps one to get out the vitriol and then look at things clearly doesnt it?

[robinhood]

lol
The people at IIM-a will do a serious mistake and miss out a great person if they do not shortlist me.
Might be they do not deserve me.

[Zeitgeist]

Originally Posted by Compassionate Boogeyman

... smells of acute negativism..

I hope its not contagious !!!

[Simba]

Originally Posted by denim_me

so u gave an exam and didnt get thru!!! so wht next? at times it helps if u shout,abuse the system,imagine the worlds all wrong. ciao

or just start spamming PG.com... we are here to give vent to creativity & critical assessments .. but not anger & abuses...

I really wanna block this thread but I hope U will use it for constructive analysis & improving later on in ur personal & professional lives... Use this to make a definite +ve change not to come up with a string of curses at the world...

God Bless
Simba

[Apurv]

Originally Posted by suchitra_sukumar

er......sometimes negativism helps one to get out the vitriol and then look at things clearly doesnt it?

To be in the midst of a flurry of abuses 12 days before CAT? Boy that needs resilience .
Anyways, W-MOD has already given a better direction to the thread...

[denim_me]

before embarking on a critique of the pro or against anger/abuse, perhaps I should make it clear that this is not intended to be an all-out invective...so have a cooler nerve while u read it.
wht shud we do when we r angry;the question, that is, in all its exasperating stubbornness is refusing to go away. whether the whole issue is good or bad is hard to say, lets be inexorably vague and say its 'interesting', amusing enuf to prompt me to write. awrite so we have heard how to make stepping stones of stumbling blocks, learn frm mistakes, have a positive outlook, become a millionaire..oops tht was a blooper..just saying so wont make it happen.how do we actually go abt doing it. all our venerable friends explained to us the gorier modalities of abominable vestige of negativism but in my entirely personal opinion i feel tht u shudnt let things pent up inside u ...if u want to bring new furniture in ur room let the old ones shud go first. showing emotions (not emoticons) are the first signs of breaking up and when u relaise tht u remould urself and its not a defeat if u accept tht u were shaken or broken.
attitude is a small thing but it does make a big difference, and acceptance of ur failure is first step towards ur goal.i didnt ask to stop after venting out anger;it was just the first step of the ladder, atleast it makes u think if ntn else.
this is a very subjective issue and probably this is not a place; an emotional healing isnt too useful in ur eyes probably.
i might be mixing issues but yes the spamming part; everybody has an opinion but going thru a series of thanx and well said kind of posts is time consuming...so maybe after a stipulated time all such posts which dont directly contribute be deleted.

luv all,atleast try to

[Apurv]

Originally Posted by denim_me

wht shud we do when we r angry;the question, that is, in all its exasperating stubbornness is refusing to go away. whether the whole issue is good or bad is hard to say, lets be inexorably vague and say its 'interesting', amusing enuf to prompt me to write.

Now that you put it this way, accepted that THIS is a valid musing .

awrite so we have heard how to make stepping stones of stumbling blocks, learn frm mistakes, have a positive outlook, become a millionaire..oops tht was a blooper..just saying so wont make it happen.how do we actually go abt doing it. all our venerable friends explained to us the gorier modalities of abominable vestige of negativism but in my entirely personal opinion i feel tht u shudnt let things pent up inside u ...if u want to bring new furniture in ur room let the old ones shud go first. showing emotions (not emoticons) are the first signs of breaking up and when u relaise tht u remould urself and its not a defeat if u accept tht u were shaken or broken.

You couldn't have said it better . Last year when I got a reject from a certain institute I'd have cherished to be in, I went to the terrace, screamed out loud & set fire to the prospectus. I successfully 'vented' my anger but was subjected to utter wrath by neighbors for causing air, noise and terrace pollution. Since then I saw reason and have been saving money to acquire a private blast furnace at a rarely-frequented place where I can burn admission documents & vent my anger in solitude without causing any dissonance to society at large. Well, I lied about the screaming part but my point being, do go ahead and do all that you said about emotions. Very very vital...

Originally Posted by gpugalia

I hope its not contagious !!!

.... but better done within yourself, without spreading it around.

attitude is a small thing but it does make a big difference, and acceptance of ur failure is first step towards ur goal.i didnt ask to stop after venting out anger;it was just the first step of the ladder, atleast it makes u think if ntn else.
this is a very subjective issue and probably this is not a place; an emotional healing isnt too useful in ur eyes probably.

Everybody has different modus operandis to handle that. Some do not take it emotionally and come out of it in a jiffy. Some take it bad. But we need to support those with a strong resilience by not breaking them down by our negative talk here. We just might end up learning something from them :P .

And lastly dood.. no offences meant, other than those that build a positive vibe around here .

Peace et al..
Apurv

[Spiderman]

there are many ways to went ur anger.the one that works for me is to clear ur troat,close the door of ur house and shout