[candybean$$$$]

Originally Posted by Digital_Saint

Mwahaha, look who's speaking. You have groaned at me a number of times for no good reason. What's this:

http://www.pagalguy.com/forum/598455-post34.html

Hypocrites, they say.:sarcasm:

LOL!!! Hypocrisy is what you started first when you groaned at my post without any reason

Now I am not an angel that I say thank you to you for nothing and of course! how can I forget your SB comment

[candybean$$$$]

Originally Posted by Pupil

Okay, let me get this straight. I have 50 thanks, 45 groans. You have 3 thanks and 12 groans. Technically speaking....oh what the heck, let others judge you.

Duh!!! As if what you say matters even two cents!!

And pray please dont tell me that the amount of thanks and groans will judge the kind of person that I am!! How kiddish :sleepy:

My gosh, how do you live with yourself. You have so much hatred for men. Anything and everything related to men is baseless, thoughtless and....ya spineless (women's favourite word). I don't understand your argument. If I speak the truth, you say that I am having misogynistic views. I am not saying that your argument is baseless or thoughtless or spineless(oop, sorry to use the word) to yourself, but I guess nobody will understand your defense system.

Nowhere have I ever used the term that I hate men and neither of my posts are even indicative of that. Now now everything related to you is spineless, baseless and thoughtless! Everything related to men isnt

You dont worry about people understanding my defense system because first of all, it aint a defense system

And I dont need to explain my viewpoint to the world like you do

You have guts? Yes, I completely agree to that looking at the number of groans I have received for speaking the truth. Losers? Ya whatever you feel like. But hey, if you really think you have the guts, then you could have argued instead of mocking like a immature kid

Who wants to get into an argument with you!! Any person with a brain has better things to do

Oh I see, so you are doing a research on my post. So do let me know how you came to the conclusion that my posts aren't reaching the correct people. Your input is important for me, don't you think so? I am glad that atleast you do agree that my cause is justified. Oops, was that a blunder on your side to admit that? Think about it.

Yea yea! Research on a topic which is so biased and has been presented as per what a single man ( ) thinks!

Dont you read your posts before typing away? If you did u would know what made me reach the conclusion that your posts are not reaching the correct people

Now, how very lame of you to bend my point of view to suit yours! Isnt it!! Harldy matters though! Whats the point getting into a discussion with you!

[pendyal]

uhhh....guys (the term being used in a unisexual way unless i get groaned at by girls for calling them that and by guys for using the term to address girls)....have been just reading whats going on in this thread for some time.....no enthu to post tho some of my good friends here know my views......i personally felt that it was childish to start a thread on this issue....but what the heck, its been started.....so can we keep the discussion to the topic and refrain from personal attacks.....have seen them come from both sides, so cant blame any one of them.....pls...this forum is meant for ppl who are 20 something and who have the ability to think logically (we might get carried away at times but arent we supposed to be able to reason things out?)
once again pls stick to the discussion at hand.......rather than talk of the relationships or the amt of brain one's got in one's head

thanks

[candybean$$$$]

Originally Posted by maheshtk_21

Now as Warrior pointed out , we are groaned at by every Teena,Dolly and Harshita. I am sure we are being looked upon as chauvinists,perverts and what not.

Yea! We are being groaned at by every Tom, **** and Harry

Now, imagine Candybean and Soumya can be wives of some person.
If that husband has some spine (in the quantity Candybean prefers of course)
and say NO when he feels otherwise, I dont think these two would think twice before beating him up and taking him to the Thana.
And if the police inspector is unmarried and oblivious to the schemes of Durgavahinis or worse still, is apathetic to the situation, what would happen to the poor man??:neutral:

I must say u made me laugh! Though I dont quite get what made you think like that

On a serious note, as I had earlier said that no woman would lodge a complaint against her husband until and unless she has been driven to the extremes. Marriage is not a game that you just keep getting married and divorced in an endless cycle.

And of course I wont do anything like that to poor lil hubby. Every couple has disagreements, what is important is to work together and solve them rather than resorting to violence.

As far as the DV bill is concerned, as is the case with any law there are always people to misuse it but you cant attribute that to all the women


Edited to add: My last post here! No point getting into gender bashing

[neena_772]

Mr. Pupil – I would say that encouraging people to indulge in mindless name-calling isn’t such a good idea. If you want to debate, then debate systematically without launching personal attacks against any section of the society.

I really don’t think that you have effectively put forward your arguments against domestic violence bill or women reservation bill. Rather you are trying to stir up a huge debate by pitting Man against Woman, and the outcome of which is not worthwhile. Trying to emotionally appeal to the male section of the forum by comments like “Long live Men” and “Men have weathered all storms” etc isn’t going to get you anywhere. Moreover your illogical views on Women : a particular conversation with a woman makes you think that she doesn’t deserve the job, that promotions for women are never given on merit and they are “deceptively excelling in their careers”, and women are going to take over the world and dictatorship will prevail – Such comments are laughable, and only points to the fact that you are extremely paranoid. If those comments are made in jest, they are fine. But they cannot be termed as logical arguments.

The Hindu Marriage Act treats both Men and Women equally. Just like a woman can claim compensation in case of divorce, a man can make similar claims of alimony from his working wife. So, you cannot say that laws aren’t formulated for men.

Domestic violence is one of the biggest dangers that women face in India today. And the cases of domestic violence against women are far greater than the domestic violence against men. While such a bill should be welcomed, the misuse of such a law should also be looked into. If for each and every petty argument in a relationship, the women is frivolous enough to file a case against her husband – then such activities would render the law as meaningless.

My personal opinion would be that the law provides an outlet to those women, who cannot get help from anyone, be it any organization or any person. For those, who are financially handicapped, and are exposed to physical and mental abuse, the bill gives them a new lease of life. Such a law would also help these women to sever ties with those husbands who physically abuse them, which unlike earlier wouldn’t have been possible without external help of any kind.

Yes, the law may be misused, but then all laws are misused in some degree or the other. The Government tries to formulate strict tax laws, but has it been successful in removing tax evasion in its entirety?

[maheshtk_21]

Originally Posted by soumya_mty

the highlights of his posts are how women are cunning and crafty creatures.......

yeah that was his opinion.
and your comments validate it.

if he would present his case in an unbiased and logical way, then that will do some good to his cause.....

right, so you feel that his posts have some truth after all.It is his presentation skills that u have objections against.right??

how did u even have the cheek to say that?!.........first of all, u people and pupil (rather, ur guru) try to demean women...and now when that dint suffice to prove ur absolutely ridiculous arguments, u have fallen as low as demeaning individual members of this forum?!!!!...

I thought twice before posting that.however my perceptions were not entirely mired and I thought that you would have some sense of humour
Sorry for that.
What I meant was that you guys did not have any consideration for our arguements and dismissed them.If I remember it correctly, you were the first ones to make personal comments.:neutral: Someone called Pupil stooopid.
You call him my 'guru' when he is not involved in the banter.I guess I get my cheek from a similar divine source.

And this was in the lighter vein.
I fall at ur feet and beg forgiveness and mercy.Lest you poison your mind and some hapless soul suffers in the future.

About the guru thing. Well not everyone tries to replicate your relation with Candybean.

good for u...dont do it....besides, we have not been groaning at "every" post!...only those posts which seem ridiculous...

Ahhaaaa ''we''!!! i always suspected this was the result of a tubewell situation.

anyways, really sorry if u felt that funny example was seriously offending.

[maheshtk_21]

Originally Posted by candybean$$$$

Yea! We are being groaned at by every Tom, **** and Harry



I must say u made me laugh! Though I dont quite get what made you think like that

Arrey I just gave an example.Wanted to say that an aggressive lady can make husband's life hell. Did not mean that you would behave likewise.

On a serious note, as I had earlier said that no woman would lodge a complaint against her husband until and unless she has been driven to the extremes.

See, you are once again making a generic statement.So you are simply not willing to accept that there are many women who can misuse this law?
The reasons can be financial greed, unhappy married life, personal habits of the husband( maybe if he is too spiritual, varying religious ideas,etc)
you will certainly agree that nagging exists in a big big big big big way.
What i want to say is that if a wife looses her balance,she can take this habit to another level.

Edited to add: My last post here! No point getting into gender bashing

Please, really sorry from from my part and also on behalf of my GURUJI

[bharat_jhurani]

A male dominated society??? Whoever said tht!!! Look at the way females hav been makin strides in literally every field...

[soumya_mty]

Originally Posted by maheshtk_21

right, so you feel that his posts have some truth after all.It is his presentation skills that u have objections against.right??

right...the law may be misused.......but his posts exaggerate the matter at hand.......paranoia, i would call...

Originally Posted by maheshtk_21

I thought twice before posting that.however my perceptions were not entirely mired and I thought that you would have some sense of humour...Sorry for that.

well...look...initally wen i read the posts on this thread, i was really really amused and i have mentioned it in manny posts too.....i thought all u guys wer kidding and stuff......but then the subsequent posts let me know that none of u was joking......so, how am i supposed to know that this time u wer really kidding?!...(although it did make me laugh out loud)!.......i thot u had also gone mad and seriously saying all that out of paranoia!
sorry for the misunderstanding!

Originally Posted by maheshtk_21

And this was in the lighter vein.
I fall at ur feet and beg forgiveness and mercy.Lest you poison your mind and some hapless soul suffers in the future.

LOL!!!!!!

[erudite123]

Although i never wanted to make a post on this irrelevent thread,but i think that the things discussed here are giving wrong message to people and hurting feelings of some people.

Forgive me for my personal comments on anyone.

I think that pupil have some personal problem with women & he is taking out his frustation on this forum:x Man, he has started 3 or 4 threads criticising women.:x :x.And many other boys joined him in his irrelevant discussion & now think wrong about women.

I want to tell u pupil that all human beings are first an individual & then man or woman.Each person is different with unique personality traits.U cant judge a person on the basis of man or woman.So dont post any nonsense on this forum.:angry:

I think moderator should lock all these threads as it is misleading people.

This is my first & last post & i wont reply to any grievance.