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Originally Posted by neena_772
I dont know if you do understand the purpose of a discussion forum, but when you do a post any topic or your views on a subject, it is pretty much implied that you are bound to be criticized regarding your viewpoints on any particular topic by those who don't agree with you. Deepti never patronized you. She criticized you by questioning your intentions. That too with necessary politeness and conviction. .
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When I posted this topic, I knew it that lot of people are going to disagree. There is a difference between disagreeing and criticising me questioning my intentions. If you disagree putting forth your own views, I will make sure I will put forth my ow views in a polite manner. But if somebody is accusing me of being a woman-hater or trying to instigate a gender war or demeaning women, then I will not accept these false accusations. If you don't believe me, try it. Try to present your views opposing mine in a polite manner without questioning my intentions or slandering me, then I will show how polite I am. You also tried to accuse me that I am replying politely to men and rudely to women. That is so wrong and baseless. I have defended my intentions vehemently whenever somebody has criticized me as a person, irrespective of the gender. This gentleman over here name estranged has only presented his own views and I presented my views. It is all about sharing and not criticizing one's intentions or slandering.
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Originally Posted by neena_772
Although, the person who questioned your sexual preference, you just politely brushed him aside.
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This chakrabirsingh has asked me whether I am gay in some previous post also. And I answered his question and he couldn't reply to it. I said, "If I have to think like chakrabirsingh, then I will jump to the conclusion that those women who are fighting for justice and rights, are all lesbians." He couldn't reply. And when he again popped his head back in the post, I preferred to ignore him. Get the facts right and then accuse.
Neena, I have nothing against you, but if you are against me as a person, then I am afraid, I will not remain polite.
@estranged - I really appreciate your suggestion. Thanks.
So you want me to answer the million-dollar question "What women think?"
Men, please listen up here.
1)Women are extremely simple and easy to understand. But they are sometimes insecure because they innately believe that men love them only for their body, which I think not all men do. Atleast I don't. In this process, women try to remain enigmatic and unpredictable so that they can hold a man's interest for a longer period. Men are freedom-lovers. Women want family and men want freedom. Women want ways to sustain the family, and men wants ways to enjoy his freedom. For women, spirituality is about taking care of her family. But for a man, spirituality is renouncing everything. Of course some men do remain in the family and live a detached life.
2)Yes, they could be extremely sacrificial and caring and sweet, and could also be erratic, irrational and stubborn. Sometimes they are not quite sure what they really want. They continue their search for perfection but never realise the true source of their disappointment. "Happiness-lies-within" is difficult for them to understand.
3)Women are not just patient, they are extra patient. Patient to a such an extent that it sometimes becomes unhealthy for them. And men, on the other hand, are very impatient. They want it and they want it now, or at least they want to confirm right now that they will get it.
4)Women don't 'always' go for looks. They prefer a man who treats them well. Women's desire to see the man praising her beauty and her nature never ends. Yes, it happens quite often that we see a beautiful pretty girl hanging out with a geek. Men, on the other hand, are experimentors. They are like adventurous wanderers. They like to try out different stuff but sometimes they forget what should never be tried.
5)Men can easily feel guilty. Women don't. Maybe upto a certain extent that is good considering the enormous physical strength that a man possesses. That guilt feeling controls his idea to misuse his strength. And many a times women misuse the guilt feeling of a man to get what she wants from the man.
6)Women live in the present. Men are able to juggle their life between past and future. Women are action-oriented and that is why they are good at multi-tasking, and men are thought-oriented and that is why they are more logical. Women make up with the lack of physical strength with excellent verbal skills. And men make up with the lack of verbal skills with excellent philosophical thinking.
7)Women cannot live without men, but its the man who can't resists to be with a woman. Men are more honest than women. It is somewhat easier to catch a man's lie than a woman's lie. Men have to learn to lie and manipulate. Women are naturals.
The culture is supposed to control the conduct of a woman. And a woman is supposed to control the conduct of a man. When the culture is lost, all control is lost, and that is what we are seeing right now. Now the culture is denounced. There is no control, no discipline and no virtue.
Please don't think that the above points have been copied from somewhere else. These are my own points and only a few of them from many.
I am hated by girls over here only because of their own perception. I am not that bad. Yes girls, you can still continue to slander me, criticize me, anything you want. I am sure some girls will try to disagree with the above points to remain enigmatic and unpredictable. You are free to disagree, and I am free to hold my views.
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