Not findin the drive to study !!!!!

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Hey people.... I'm a software engineer workin for the last 6 monts. I passed out of college in 2005. I'm somehow not able to get that drive to study for the CAT,though I know that gettin into a good b-school is my goal. People, plz help me out...
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Now let the subject, himself, decide whatz best for him.



reminds me of munnabhai ... ... the subject has got a name .. rishi !!
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No more replies from me on this debate Gaurav ..!!!

I have put my point forward and somehow cant digest your point of view . Enough has been said now ... let Rishi decide himself .Hope he takes the right step !

Same here Sahil... I feel there is no reason to argue on the same. U have given ur views and so have i. Now let the subject, himself, decide whatz best for him.

As i said before... u need both. Without having fear in ur mind about the consequences, u can't achieve glory..


Anyway, i respect ur views and feel that the discussion be buried here.

Take care

Regards,
Gaurav
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just remember that becos others are studying hard and its a % ile based paper where your relative position is what matters , so u have to run as fast as everyone to keep ur place , by not studying u are not steady , u are going backwards ....

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hahaha...so much debate over this issue.....

if you are not finding the drive to study....too bad...it means that you dunt want it bad enough....the day you want it bad enough,the drive will follow

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hey guys!! this is my first post on paagulguy..and umm,just wanted to bring that out!

Well,about the finding the drive bit..I guess for some people,its very easy to focus and stay in the grind,but for people like me,it just doesnt work out that way! So I either make people tell me,very harshly,the consequences that Id have to face if I just dont work hard enough..not just regarding cat,but working hard towards what actually appeals to you.And if that doesnt work either,I try logging in to various cat discussion forums(pg,for ex ) and check out how hard people are actually working.And if that still doesnt work,wait till the nth moment to actually feel the heat.That should surely do!

For now,so long,guys!
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No more replies from me on this debate Gaurav ..!!!

I have put my point forward and somehow cant digest your point of view . Enough has been said now ... let Rishi decide himself .Hope he takes the right step !

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What meant by will is rather wish.. that he wishes to study... but doesnt have the drive.

he has the wish.. but not the will... earlier you said he has will??
koi nahin .. i ll take the new version .. .. no more paltis !!


Why shud u think b4 trying.


sorry?? dont think 😞 !!


If u try hard, u wud. Think of ur own hard wrk for K... well.... that is just a thought of mind... doesnt mean, that u would actually die, but to say, u gotta put in every inch of what u have.


agreed... try hard!!


one has to realise the consequences of his actions every moment!


consequences include both success and failures of the said actions.


without that, u cant do what u wanna.... So u need to fix certain scary barriers which would drive u to work and that's what i quoted! Simple!


one would rather fix motivational/inspirational milestones/goals ... rather than scary barriers !!
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Contradicting ur own self !! read it carefully ...

"I'm somehow not able to get that drive to study for the CAT "

What meant by will is rather wish.. that he wishes to study... but doesnt have the drive.

Nothing can be achieved by means of pschological barrier. Since it goes into pschology (which i dont specialise in) .. ask any psychiatrist !!

Trust me, nothing can be achieved without it too!



harsh words ... never let any thing gain so much importance in ur life .. that u feel dead if u dont achieve it !!
what if he doesnot get CAT .. inspite of all your barriers?? Dead :wow:

Why shud u think b4 trying. If u try hard, u wud. Think of ur own hard wrk for K... well.... that is just a thought of mind... doesnt mean, that u would actually die, but to say, u gotta put in every inch of what u have.

one has to realise the consequences of his actions every moment! without that, u cant do what u wanna.... So u need to fix certain scary barriers which would drive u to work and that's what i quoted! Simple!
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Sahil, u r forgetting one thing. The guy has the will to study... he just doesnt feel wnough pressure in his mind to act.


Contradicting ur own self !! read it carefully ...

"I'm somehow not able to get that drive to study for the CAT "


So, if he creates a kind of psychological barrier, he would be able to tighten the rope that connects his carrier with studies. I dun mean to stress it, but should ensure there is no loose knot.


Nothing can be achieved by means of pschological barrier. Since it goes into pschology (which i dont specialise in) .. ask any psychiatrist !!



Everything else, like studies with friends, talking, etc equally good... but u shud have this feeling constantly in ur head... that if u dun study, u r dead.


harsh words ... never let any thing gain so much importance in ur life .. that u feel dead if u dont achieve it !!
what if he doesnot get CAT .. inspite of all your barriers?? Dead :wow:


Anyway, i feel he has got enough attention and advice to start acting!! :D


He has asked a genuine query ... and whatever attention gets to him is less .. unless and until he gets a solution to it!

dont wont to get into an argument .. but cant let a newbie misled like this!!
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more than talking with friends .. studying with them is imp. Creating Psychological barriers never helps !!!

We need to be practical in life .. where all this theory fails !! So instead of thinking that this might happen and that might happen ... u need to act !!

Prepare for the best ... but be ready for the worst ... dont let the fear of the worst bug you !!
Sahil, u r forgetting one thing. The guy has the will to study... he just doesnt feel wnough pressure in his mind to act. So, if he creates a kind of psychological barrier, he would be able to tighten the rope that connects his carrier with studies. I dun mean to stress it, but should ensure there is no loose knot.

Everything else, like studies with friends, talking, etc equally good... but u shud have this feeling constantly in ur head... that if u dun study, u r dead.



Anyway, i feel he has got enough attention and advice to start acting!! 😁
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