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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 02:32 PM

This is what a friend of mine got to say about the V-Day...


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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 02:32 PM

One piece of wisdom i found on net.Hope it wil clear the doubt of the following combination:
Good Girl + Bad Boy



Why Girl Attracted to Bad Boys

Q. I understand that females want men who care, who bond with them and make them feel special, but I have seen a lot of women who respect "bad boys" more than they do a guy who is romantic. In other words, the nice romantic guy does all that work and the player plays with the girl and ends up with her !!! I always see this.


A. A bad boy is attractive to a woman because he is exciting and unpredictable, and a wimp or a typical nice guy is perfect all the time, but is boring. So, the real question for you to examine is how can you be an exciting, passionate man without having to be a jerk in the process. It means make things exciting with a woman, not predictable.

When you do something nice for a woman, you are applying what behaviorists call "reinforcement." Intuitively, "bad boys" know all about this. A "reinforcement" is a reward something that feels good that the subject gets for performing a certain behavior or for having a certain feeling. For instance, giving a dog a treat when he comes to you when you call his name reinforces the behavior of coming when you call. In time, the dog will look forward to coming when you call, because he knows that obeying you will mean he'll get a reinforcement that he likes.

The thing to know is that if you give the dog a treat every single time he comes when you call, he'll start to get lazy. He'll figure, "Eh, why should I hurry? I can get over there in my own good time, and take the treat." Constant reinforcement stops being effective after a while.

You may have noticed this in your own relationships. Have you ever had someone who consistently goes out of his or her way to make you feel special? Suppose that one morning, out of the blue, someone at your work place brought you a cup of excellent coffee when you first sat down at your desk. You'd probably feel pretty special, and you'd be happy to see that person later in the day. You would have associated seeing that person with the good feelings you got from the gift.

But now imagine if that person brought you coffee every single day, like clockwork, and never missed a day. At first you'd probably appreciate it, then you'd notice it less, then you'd hardly notice it at all. You might even start complaining when the coffee wasn't exactly the way you liked it, or get angry if he or she missed a day. You'd naturally go from being delighted by the constant gifts to seeing them as a regular part of life, or even as something you intrinsically deserve. This is a natural reaction to constant, unvarying reinforcement.

If you constantly shower a woman with gifts and attention, you run the risk of the same thing happening. At first, it's important to reinforce a woman constantly; it gets her in the habit of being happy about seeing you. But after a while, if your gifts and attention are going to stay effective, you must start bestowing them a little more irregularly. This is what behavior experts call a "variable schedule of reinforcement." You don't give her flowers every week, or every date. You don't always have a little gift for her. You don't always show up to flirt with her at the same time, or on the same day. You vary your schedule of making her feel extra-good, and thus keep the interaction exciting and fresh for her.

Tom puts a variable schedule of reinforcement to good use. "When I first start dating a woman, I go out of my way to make her feel good a lot," he says. "But in time, I know I can start scaling back. As long as I keep making her feel good often, I get better results if I don't reinforce her with special gifts or presents every single time I see her." The classic trap to watch out for is any reinforcing behavior that begins to look like a habit to you. Keep an eye open for things you always do to make her feel special. Don't always bring her gifts; don't always visit her work place once every three days. Vary your schedule of reinforcement, and you'll have a lot more success.
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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 03:48 PM

The History of Valentine's Day

Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial -- which probably occurred around 270 A.D -- others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.
To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.
The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February -- Valentine's Day -- should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.
In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.
According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)
Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.
Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".


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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 04:23 PM

Wel i dont knw about u guyzzz but i am celebrating:


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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 04:42 PM

from what i have understood about attraction......nice guys finish last in the matters of the heart......u need to be a MAN and should be able to convey that to the other person....and not become a wussy.......show ur natural side to them and dont pretend to be a nice guy.......talking about which the FMS DISCUSSIONS come to mind......where all these guys were trying to be nice little guys.......trust me, they will consider u to be best friends but never the OTHER GUY....who has the mystery element in him.....u need to be different from the others.....
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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 05:37 PM

AAM ZINDAGI

24 saal mai aaj tak ek baar bhi ek ladki nahi pattii...:vamp:

24 saal barbad.........


MENTOS ZINDAGI


24 saal mai koi ladki hume nahee pata sakee....

ladkiyo ke 24 saal BARBAD.............
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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 05:51 PM

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AAM ZINDAGI

24 saal mai aaj tak ek baar bhi ek ladki nahi pattii...:vamp:

24 saal barbad.........


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24 saal mai koi ladki hume nahee pata sakee....

ladkiyo ke 24 saal BARBAD.............

HA HA HA............

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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 10:21 PM

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i firmly disagree with diablorulez u really need a gf a good one though.She can realy be a emotional supoort in bad times .
i had gf in college but not now in postgrad and really want one who is special..:-|
Mamoo tell me one thing ..mummy hai na..kafi hai
emotional support or something else support...well if u have gf ur all emotions need to b focussed on one self..infact the sole pupose revolves around loosing of ur self.. kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta hai.. so u oose urself to gain more of her

n infact if she leaves u then it creates an emotional void.. "NEED" thats the key word..its better u shd b self supportive.. B a MAN
go to mirror n c urself there ..standing staring n tell me r u not special..then y u need someone special .. love urself n u will find the love of ur life..coz coz anyone can go..world is dynamic but what remains with "U" is "U"

thats what we spend all the energy n time finding so many things outside which is just inside us

OMG! mere se iti saari gyaan nikalwa raha hai

VALENTINES DAY VELA TIME DAY



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Re: Valentine's Day - 13-02-2008, 10:27 PM

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AAM ZINDAGI

24 saal mai aaj tak ek baar bhi ek ladki nahi pattii...:vamp:

24 saal barbad.........


MENTOS ZINDAGI


24 saal mai koi ladki hume nahee pata sakee....

ladkiyo ke 24 saal BARBAD.............
too good for only a thanks.......amazin spirit...agar har ladka aisa sochne laga....to ladkiyon ka attitude gayab ho jaega......
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Re: Valentine's Day - 14-02-2008, 03:05 AM

Happy Valentine's Day Puys !!

n btw, valentines day is to be celebrated with ur loved ones, not necesarrily a gf... so chill....


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