First of i would just state a fact :
It would not be surprising if one day we see the posts in this thread are converted into a Book like the AIWTSC ebook on pagalguy.
Koschin for the day ...
Do you feel taking risks in life pays off ?? Did you take any ? Did it actually help ??
According to me its not whether "i feel taking risks PAYS OFF"
initially for sure i also measured it (Risks) the same way, i.e. the "PAY OFF" factor.
After taking my share of Risks at this age for me there is more to it than just a Return.
When we take risks we change the usual assumed coarse of our lives bringing in new factors and constraints that may be beneficial or hazardous, but in the end we get to realize a new part of our own selves, our choices and our ability to bear them. Seeing from that point of view i would say it always adds to our Self.
Have i taken them :
well lets just say this is nothing sort of a coincidence of a lifetime that i came across this QNS exactly when i supposed to have emerged out of the Biggest risk of my life till date. (more details in this thread:splat: Frustrated and I need some inspiration/advice
whether the risk payed off or not am not sure, but it sure is a hell of a ride.
other Big ones that i've taken.
) was completely dazed by a childhood friendship that left me bruised very badly but made me stronger all the same.
) was in love with a girl
and did the inconceivable mistake of telling about her to my parents:banghead:. this made me a wreck for three months that stretched up-to a year. As of today, though she would never be anything more than the first
, I learned a thing or two about relationships.
) i failed to say the the right things at the right time to the right person - the result, am still single.
there are other small ones too .... i regret some of those but i guess if there are no mistakes then there is no excitement either.
Finally i'll just say that the best ingredient for (bad) Risk
is - humble persistence:|.
p.s. Nice Koschen Bro..